I grew up in a family of people who swept things under the carpet. I’m an open book. This caused a lot of misunderstandings in my family. I was seen as the black sheep. I’ll never stop expressing myself but I will be more discerning with who I share with. Great read Ryan.
This was an inspiring read. You clearly defined vulnerability & showed why it's important. We've to learn to embrace all of our parts & express them without hesitation.
Six feet under is one of my top five best tv shows ever. I never thought of it in terms of the best depiction of vulnerability, and that is it. Death and grieving is the greatest time of vulnerability.
"not all protective barriers should be torn down" - I think this part is so important. We need some walls, but we also need a door through which we and those we allow can access our hearts.
I could be your twin Ryan. Through the years, I’ve been slowly chipping away at the wall which often has felt insurmountable. Things are improving but it’s still a challenge. I truly appreciate your openness and honesty here. 🩵
I like both Conscious Leadership Group's and Art of Accomplishments definitions around this. They respectively say...
CLG: Connection is about intimacy, or: into-me-see. Letting others see into me. So if I long for connection, a reliable way to generate it is to let you see into me, and hold space for me to see you non-judgementally.
And Joe Hudson at AOA simply says: vulnerability is saying something you're scared to say. It doesn't have to be monumental. But it's taking the risk of being seen and seeing what happens.
I find both to be tremendous acts of bravery, and the connection that's generated when two people are willing to play that game with each other is nothing short of magical.
Whenever I read your story, it feels like I’m reading a part of myself. Vulnerability has always been tough for me. It’s only now that I’m learning to open up to a few people I trust. Your words really resonated with me.
Great insight 👍👍
I grew up in a family of people who swept things under the carpet. I’m an open book. This caused a lot of misunderstandings in my family. I was seen as the black sheep. I’ll never stop expressing myself but I will be more discerning with who I share with. Great read Ryan.
This was an inspiring read. You clearly defined vulnerability & showed why it's important. We've to learn to embrace all of our parts & express them without hesitation.
Six feet under is one of my top five best tv shows ever. I never thought of it in terms of the best depiction of vulnerability, and that is it. Death and grieving is the greatest time of vulnerability.
"not all protective barriers should be torn down" - I think this part is so important. We need some walls, but we also need a door through which we and those we allow can access our hearts.
I could be your twin Ryan. Through the years, I’ve been slowly chipping away at the wall which often has felt insurmountable. Things are improving but it’s still a challenge. I truly appreciate your openness and honesty here. 🩵
I like both Conscious Leadership Group's and Art of Accomplishments definitions around this. They respectively say...
CLG: Connection is about intimacy, or: into-me-see. Letting others see into me. So if I long for connection, a reliable way to generate it is to let you see into me, and hold space for me to see you non-judgementally.
And Joe Hudson at AOA simply says: vulnerability is saying something you're scared to say. It doesn't have to be monumental. But it's taking the risk of being seen and seeing what happens.
I find both to be tremendous acts of bravery, and the connection that's generated when two people are willing to play that game with each other is nothing short of magical.
Whenever I read your story, it feels like I’m reading a part of myself. Vulnerability has always been tough for me. It’s only now that I’m learning to open up to a few people I trust. Your words really resonated with me.