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Ryan Delaney's avatar

Thank you for your kind words. That may be true. I tried to connect with my partner, but she was intractably stoic. Unfortunately, I didn't have the skill, emotional maturity, or depth of awareness to work through our respective limitations. And neither of us had really healed our shame, which kept us stuck. Thank you for reading and commenting.

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rmngunze@gmail.com's avatar

So sorry she was like that. She was not available for connection. She needed to heal but she wasn't ready to face that reality and work on it. I think she used the fun as an escape.

Anyway, I am glad you are in a better place now.

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

You're wise and perceptive, and I agree with you. Of course, I take responsibility for my part. I appreciate your kindness. тШ║я╕П

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