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Healing Out Loud  ❤️‍🩹's avatar

Resentment bubbling up after saying yes is a great indicator that you are abandoning yourself in that moment. I think the more aware we become of our behaviors, the easier it is to catch ourselves doing them and then correct ourselves in the moment. It may sound and feel like punishment, but you can do it with love and self-compassion.

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Susan Grandfield's avatar

This point really spoke to me…..”You learned to relate to the world around people who weren't representative of humanity as a whole”. Even at the age of almost 50 I still sometimes notice the influence of my parent’s views of the world in my thinking! Being willing to stand behind my perspective as just as valid as theirs is something I’ve been working on for many years, and the expansion and relief that comes when I am able to do that is powerful.

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