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Alexander Lovell, PhD's avatar

What a beautiful gift your father gave you, and now you've passed it on to all of us. This "inheritance of values," as you put it, is so much more profound than any material wealth. It’s fascinating how these words from a man you never really knew can have such a profound impact. It speaks to the enduring power of family and the connections that run deeper than blood. I’ve been thinking about what kind of legacy I want to leave, not in terms of possessions, but in terms of the values I pass on. This post has inspired me to be more intentional about that. It’s a reminder that we’re all part of a larger story, a lineage that stretches back generations.

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

It is fascinating, isn't it, Alex? And sweet, too. As you say, we're all part of a larger story, so I'm glad you're thinking about what values you want to pass on. Your ideas positively impact hundreds of others and me today and, hopefully, continue long after you're gone.

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Susan Shier's avatar

This is such a touching story and I adore the fact that you were given this letter at 14 and that you still allow it to inspire and soothe you. I can only hope that this tradition is one many families could consider.

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

I don't always write about such personal things, so it feels good to hear it was touching, Susan. I hadn't considered this in the context of other families, but I like the idea. I passed these on to my stepson a few years ago.

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Teri Leigh 💜's avatar

I love Lucy (the Shiba) too.

And I love the rhyming rhythm of these words. It sticks with me as a steady heartbeat and footfall, one step at a time, repeatedly, be good, be true, be honest, be kind.

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

I'm glad you noted the rhyming rhythm. I appreciate that aspect, too.

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Adrienne Webster's avatar

I love that!

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

Thanks, Adrienne. :)

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Author John G. Dyer's avatar

Thanks!

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Ruby Lewis's avatar

Beautiful

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We Are Already Here's avatar

Lovely to see how certain values stand the test of time because they are so universal. Thanks for sharing!

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

It means a lot to me to hear this. Thank you. ☺️

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Ian Haycroft's avatar

Thank you Ryan. Beautiful home truths. ❤️

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

Thank you, Ian. ☺️

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Grace Drigo's avatar

Some great words of wisdom to hold and cherish. What a lovely gift from your dad, Ryan. I love hanging out with older folks and listening to their awesome stores. 🩵

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

Yes! Older folks have had such rich lives and so many stories to share. Thanks for your kind words, Grace.

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Ed's avatar

Beautiful Ryan!

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

Thanks, Ed.

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Nancy A's avatar

What a beautiful treasure you were gifted! It says so much in so few words! He spoke so wonderfully of character, it is clear he had a great deal of it! Thank you for sharing.

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

It's interesting that "character" stood out for you, Nancy. That is one of the few things my father impressed upon me growing up. Sadly, I don't think it's talked about much today. I appreciate your comment. 🙏🏻

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Adam PT's avatar

Incredible. Very Stoic and wise. Thank you so much for sharing his words.

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

I'm glad you liked them, Adam. It means a lot that you let me know. 🙏🏻

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Justin Mulvaney's avatar

Beautiful. Thanks for sharing Ryan.

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

Cheers, Justin.

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rmngunze@gmail.com's avatar

Best inheritance ever. Best advice for modern life.

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

I so appreciate your thoughtful message. Thank you. ☺️

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Eddie Burns's avatar

First of all -- what a cool thing for a dad to do! Secondly -- such wisdom! And, you still have the typewritten version. How cool is that?! Sounds like you come from a wisdom tree rooted in the beautiful green pastures of Ireland. My roots go back to Scotland. Thanks for sharing!!

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

Scotland? That's so fun; we're neighbors, Eddie! I appreciate you taking the time to read and share your kind words, Eddie. ☺️

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Kyle Fisk's avatar

I love these snippets of wisdom. Has the feel of Rudyard Kipling's poem If--

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Ryan Delaney's avatar

Thank you, Kyle. I know Rudyard Kipling and am unfamiliar with his poetry, but I trust you.

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